A relationship can be broken or disrupted for many different reasons. The manner in which it is disturbed will have a big influence on the ways in which it may be mended. How to get someone back can take many different forms.

The great variety of ways in which relationships dissolve and then reform themselves is such that only a few general rules can be suggested. They may apply over many different cases but must be modified according to circumstances. In some cases they may not apply at all.

Three tips can be remembered by using the acronym HAT. H stands for humble pie, A stands for attitude and T stands for tenderness. In a broad sense a resolution process may use these three words in order.

Humble pie is not always easy to eat. One may feel that one is at least partially in the right in a conflict situation and it may seem demeaning to give up a position of righteousness and ask for forgiveness or resolution. Nevertheless, wisdom might dictate that preserving pride is not worth as much as a relationship.

Her pride had been injured and so everything that the man did from that moment was seen in a negative light. It was only after many enlightening experiences that the two were able to eat humble pie, apologize sincerely to each other, and resume a rich relationship.

Attitude is something that is very difficult to overcome. A change of attitude may be necessary either in one’s self or in another person. It may be extraordinarily difficult to change an attitude of one’s own and even more difficult to change another person’s attitude.

An attitude of disaffection can poison a relationship. Even after years of marriage and intimacy one person can develop a negative attitude to another so that small mannerisms become infuriating. Only a change of attitude can resolve the disaffection.

Finally, there is tenderness. After reflection and love have been sufficient for partners to back down and attitudes have altered a stiffness may still persist. A tender touch, a face up tilted or a tender look can be the slight gesture that lets loose a flood of passionate reconciliation. This will be the tiny final step in how to get someone back. Click here: How To Get Her Back