My girlfriend cheated on me, can i ever take her back?
How To Get Your Old Girlfriend Back question by Russell: My girlfriend cheated on me, can i ever take her back?
Just yesterday i broke up with my girlfriend of 2 months. I broke up with her due to the fact that she cheated on me while away at another college, visiting her friends over the weekend. She has had problems with herself at this college before and moved into my area where we met. Ever since then she has been doing much better with school, work (where she met me), and getting all her issues figured out. Well, when she went back “for closure”, she ended up having sex with one of her friends. Her excuse was “she wasn’t strong enough for her old emotions”. The thing that kills me is that together we haven’t had sex yet. When she called me and told me the day after it happened i was filled with rage and couldn’t even talk to her for the next couple days. When she returned home on Monday, i was rid of my anger but told her face to face exactly how i felt. She started balling and telling me how much of a mistake she made and blah blah blah how much she cares about me, she asked if she changed or started over again if i would take her back, i told her i didn’t have an answer and that it would take some time to build the trust back up again. I haven’t seen her since but i know that we will be working together, i feel torn and i do miss her, but I’m not sure if i can ever take her back. It hard because this was my first serious relationship. I would like to hear what your opinion on the subject is.
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Answer by Turtles
In my eyes once a cheater always a cheater, if you are involved with someone you dont do stupid stuff to jepordize the relationship she knew what she was doing and didnt even try to stop it, dont waste your time and go back with her, once the trust if broken its very very very hard to get it back again.
I had almost this same thing happen to me not too long ago. The anger is good. I think its better to be angry than sad. I see too many guys moping around and pouting, feeling sorry for themselves because of some girl. I wouldn’t take her back. Especially since she obviously can’t control herself or her emotions. She’s got some baggage and you don’t need that. There are plenty other girls out there that you won’t have to worry about or doubt your trust in them. Just hang tight, spend some time with your friends and move on. Hope I helped big dogg.
I don’t think it’d be a good idea to take her back. If you’ve only been together two months, and this happened, how do you think things will be years from now if you two are together? You want to mend things, become close again, trust her again, and then two years down the road, however long, she runs into an old friend, or has trouble in her relationship with you, and she goes running into the arms of another man. It’s not worth it. This won’t be your only serious relationship. And as for not having sex with her yet, save yourself for someone who’s truly special and deserves every bit of you. I know it’s hard, but there are amazing women out there. Don’t settle just because you were so close with her and thought of spending the rest of your life with her. You deserve better.
2 months is not worth the aggro move on to another chick.
noooooooooooooo defiantly not once a cheater always one you are lucky to get rid of her
Sorry I banged her man. If it makes you feel better, everyone else at the party did as well.