Getting Back Together With Ex question by Drum nd Jake: How do I get my “ex” girlfriend back after I’ve majorly messed stuff up? quite complicated so detailed answers?
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When I say “ex” it’s because recently we have broken up and gotten back together a lot quite recently and this time she’s very close to not wanting to take me back. I am 16 and she is 15 and we go to different boarding schools, mine’s co-ed and her’s just for girls. We see each other most weekends and her dad works round the corner from my school. We started going out in November 2010 and we had met through a friend she was visiting who happens to go to my school and who I’m friends with. We started getting to know each other and we started getting feelings for each other and we saw each other more and then eventually I asked her out. She said yes. During the Chirstmas holidays however we wernt able to see each other much, apart from skype and texting pictures of ourselves to each other. We called and texted and messaged. I had a lot of revisiong for my mock GCSE exams in january 2011. When school started again about the 8th of January she came to see me on a day when I only had one exam and I saw her after it. We had an amaizng time and she couldnt stay for long because she had to get back to her school but we still cherished the moment. However a few weeks later near the end of January I had found out she had been flirting via text with a couple guys in my boarding house and she had done some other flirting as well on skype and one person had screen shotted it. This was around the start of feb and near my birthday. I had forgiven her after we split for a day when I had apparently been selfish when I asked why she would do that and saying so you dont love me any more when she said she loved someone else. I took her back because i love her and she said she wanted to be with me and she loved me. Then on my 16th birthday, she had a disco with a nearby boys school and i was paranoid because I have my GCSE exams coming up and also I have very bad luck in my love life around my birthday. 2010 around my birthday I was dumped because apparently the school was too nosey. 2009 dumped me because she was asked out by my best friend. 2008 I was dumped on my birthday. Also as I personally think im unattractive and unfunny andboring , (contrary to what people I ask and what my close friends who are girls say), I got really worried. I asked to be good and she was fine with that she got phone raped after saying, “im going to pull all theese guys here, Im so hawt” I was seriously worried and we talked and she got angry at me even though I had explained ages before about my bday paranoia, (btw I had the worst bday ever was stuck in a room coz My mum made me revise 🙁 and then my girlfriend scares me ) and then two days later she dumps me. Im a distraught mess, crying and just being angry at people, being grumpy at people. Three days later we beg each other to take each other back. Then it started turning into a whole thing of dumping splitting up dumping splitting up. It was all because I apprently to stressy, moody and paranoid, but I have my GCSE exams coming up very soon and they shape my future, she will be stressed when she does them. I love her but the other day I just was a wreck and explained how i had been feeling and why i was depressed and how i thought it wasnt nice for her to flirt with other people. She tried to flip it by saying im sorry ive hurt you i should kill mysekf. This was after she had treated me reallly meanly during a week of her period (YES i know that you cant blame it on that, but i know it was because she told me and that the following week she was nice) then after wards i convinced her not to be all i should go kill myself,i kepy explaing why i was depressed, she took it the wrong way thought i was dumping her so she dumped me. i waasnt thought. A couple days later I begged her to take me back. She did. Now recently i have been a state because my exams are soo close now. She’s now kinda half broken up with me but she is seriously angry at me. She says I have been selfish. I ADMIT I HAVE AND IT’S ALL MY FAULT. I just have been like this because of my upcoming exams. I love her more than anything. She’s the third girlfriend I’ve ever had and I can’t let go. She wants to make this work she says I just have to be commited to it working. I AM. Once the exams are out of the way I have promised to make it all up to her. My first present i got her was a £70 ring, then I spent £52 on valentnes day flowers and a valentines day teddy. I’ve made cards, a booklet thing I wrote for her, cards and things for her birthday when we started going out. I love her. I always try to do my best for her. I just don’t really know what I have to do to be a good boyfriend

Please people, reply to this. I love her so freaking much I want this to work.

Getting Back Together With Ex best answer:

Answer by Helen Doyle
I don’t know what to suggest but I just want to say I hope you’re okay and you can talk to me on here if you need to. Hope you find a solution.