How do I get my ex fiance back! What do I say exactly from all those ebooks that will help!?
How To Get My Ex Fiance Back question by jeremydriscoll2001: How do I get my ex fiance back! What do I say exactly from all those ebooks that will help!?
Ok. Here it goes. I met my girl after she left a man who is the father of her two kids. She left him because he was abusive with drugs and would beat her up constantly. Well he just got out of jail and says hes cleaned up his act. So she broke up with me (her now ex fiance) to be single she said. She didn’t say she was getting back together just yet with him. But that its too much being a couple with him in the picture seeing the kids.
I’ve seen that there are “how to get your ex back” books out there. But I already agreed to see her today before 12. And she will be here any moment. I’m at a public place without a creditcard and cannot buy any of those ebooks at this time. Please someone who has read those ebooks tell me what to say when I first meet today. Or please send me the book by email. Anything! PLEASE! I know that in order to get an ex back I need to act like I dont need her, and make her jealous. But what else? What is the best thing to say?
How To Get My Ex Fiance Back best answer:
Answer by mr johnson
talk with him
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No, do not act like you do not need her or make her jealous. You have to just come right out and ask her for an explanation of why she broke up with you. If her explanation just sounds like a bunch of excuses then you have to tell her this ” You know that I love you, but if you are not willing to work on our relationship then I wish you the best. Then walk away. Hard as this sounds, you must do this. There is only one or two things she is feeling, one, she loves you and cannot decide to be with him or you. Two, she loves him and wants to keep you on the side incase it does not work out with him. Might as well find it out now. Sometimes we look for words to tell us when the action is all there in what we need to know. Good luck to you!
Well i have read a few of these books, and if you are meeting her today you are already doing what it says Not to do.
They all state you need at least 30 days of NO contact unless she calls you. This 30 is so that she will forget about the past and not pull away anymore.
TERM: PUSH & PULL – When a relationship gets bad people tend to do the wrong thing. Every thing you do ( talk to her, say you love her, text her ) you are pushing ( even if you dont think you are) and she is pulling away. This 30 days is to STOP the push pull effect.
During those 30 days you need to work out get healthy and pretend to move on. DO NOT CALL OR TEXT OR EMAIL HER it will only set you back.
After 30 days of you working on yourself you call and talk her into a date. Something small like coffee. Quick and easy you want to be out of there within a hour and act real busy, if you tell her 3:00 and she get there at 3:45 only spend 15 min with her. Make her think your time is valuable and you cant spend it on someone who is irresponsible ( it will attract her like crazy) Then set up a few more and go on from there.
hope this helps.
P.S. DONT LISTEN TO picturesh.. OR ANYONE ELSE FOR THAT MATTER.
Listen, Ever hear the old saying, DONT HATE THE PLAYER HATE THE GAME?
Even if you dont admit it, there is a ” GAME ” out there. and if you dont play you cant win. That is all there is to it. Human behavor is easy to see and understand, If you Just as picturesh.. says ” TALK TO HER” you will be doing the wrong thing.
Thats like saying timeing means nothing when asking for something.
(ie. You grandma just died, do you go and ask your mom for $ 100.00 to go to the mall? NO, Just walking up and asking will get you nothing! be causing of the timing. Now if you play the game and wait a day of two what are your odds of saying ” MOM i’m really upset at what happened to grandma, i need to get it off my mind can i have some money to go to the mall? ” ODDS are you just scored money.
SO dont listen to people that have NO idea what they are talking about.